I think we can safely say it's a tiny minority of HN users that would respond in that manner.
I'm glad to see you've come back to HN, and although you say you don't want an apology, I hope those responsible (especially the one who phoned your boss) do apologise to you.
I'd like to say its a shame recruiters have such a bad rep, but 99% of the ones I've dealt with have been a lot more interested in getting their commission than getting me the right job.
That said, I've met some genuinely awesome recruiters, and you seem like one of those, so keep fighting the good fight :)
I'm glad to see you've come back to HN, and although you say you don't want an apology, I hope those responsible (especially the one who phoned your boss) do apologise to you.
I'd like to say its a shame recruiters have such a bad rep, but 99% of the ones I've dealt with have been a lot more interested in getting their commission than getting me the right job.
That said, I've met some genuinely awesome recruiters, and you seem like one of those, so keep fighting the good fight :)